I received product to facilitate this party. All opinions and ideas are my own.

Growing up, most of my birthday party themes in some way involved the ocean, whether it was a Hawaiian-themed party with loads of seashells or an actual underwater theme. I often had an ocean theme in my room. You might call me, ehrm, slightly obsessed. As you can imagine, I was way excited to start working on this under the sea party theme, so I may have gone a little overboard. You could say I got myself in a little too deep. Thankfully, I had some help and it was totally worth it, so I just had to share some of these ideas with you.
For our parties, we have a general party activity order we usually go in: decorating, snack time, craft time, eating time, CAKE and singing, gift opening, games/activities, and party favors. I will share each idea in that order.
Decorations
I absolutely love how the decorations turned out for this party. I started off everything with light blue and dark blue tablecloths and light blue and dark blue party plates from Oriental Trading Company. If you’re going to have an ocean theme, you have to start with the basics, right? I decorated around the table with various sea shells, starfish, sponges, and handmade coral decorations.
I made these fun red coral decorations by twirling together various lengths of red pipe cleaners.





Snack Time
One of the first things I offer my guests is a snack. Some will come hungry already and want to get eating right away. Others will snack throughout the entire time. I usually start my parties with a snack and craft so everyone can work at their own pace on these as we wait for the rest of our guests to arrive. I try to have a spread of various items and I usually do not make it too big, but we had to have this one around dinner time so we provided a whole meal.

- blue sports drink
- lemon lime soda
- splash of pineapple juice
We served it in the light-up party fountain that I’ve had since I was a kid. We didn’t have it running this time so I only put one of the tiers on and filled it with cracker snacks and stuck this cute Nessie ladle.



Craft Time
The unique thing about craft time for this party was that the craft WAS the take-home party favor. We did not hand out separate party favors. For each of these, we used products from Oriental Trading Company.
DIY Aquarium Jars




Each child was handed a mini water bottle and a Mini Tropical Fish Squirt to stick inside the jar. This made it look like the jars were little aquariums.

Don’t forget to have the kids write their names on the lids so they know whose is whose.
Eating Time
As I mentioned earlier, we usually have our parties between meals (around 1 or 2 PM) to avoid having to serve full meals, but this one was pushed out later than planned. To keep with the theme, I got a deal on popcorn shrimp and shells and cheese (if you do this, be sure to ask if there are any seafood allergies.) We made sure we still had yogurt and vegetables and a drink available during this time.
Cake
Okay, I admit it…cake time is my favorite part. I love decorating the cakes, singing to the boys, watching them blow out the candles, then seeing all the messy smiles it brings. I made this Aquarium Cake which was actually much more simple to make than it appears. If it is too much for you, you can always make the fish cupcakes for everyone instead. Another alternative would be to use blue frosting on cupcakes, add some candy rocks to the bottom then add a candy fish to make them look like fish bowls (I will do a simple tutorial for this later. Right now, you can get the DIY Aquarium Cake tutorial here.)



Games/Activities
We were planning to do a bean bag toss game where the kids could “feed the fish”, but it was pretty chilly outside and we decided we would rather not have throwing in the house. Instead, we calmed all the kids down by turning on Finding Nemo for the kids to watch. Not only did it match the theme and get them all sitting nicely in one place (quite an accomplishment with the size crowd we had), but it also is a great way to teach about different fish in the ocean. We had them try to spot and name some of the different creatures we had in our decorations.


Thank You Cards
It is always polite to send “Thank you” cards, so I decided to set some up. I’ll be honest, I’m not the best at remembering to hand these out (I still have not sent them all, though I have them aside for when I see everyone again), but it is a courtesy that can mean a lot to your guests. I wanted something that was simple and still stuck with our underwater theme, so I purchased some simple blue “Thank you” cards that had multi-colored dots all over it. Using a black marker, I simply turned some of these circles into fish and other ocean creatures and some became bubbles!

Everyone had so much fun at this party. It was packed full of adventures, almost as if we dove right into the ocean. From snack time to craft time, cake to movies, I’d say this party made quite a splash. I hope you all enjoyed these ocean party ideas and have a blast at your own party!
What is your favorite part of the ocean? Do you have a favorite sea creature? Share with me in the comments below!
I’m also curious to know if you open gifts DURING the party or AFTER. I am used to gift unwrapping as part of the party, but around where we live, this seems to be a rare occurrence.
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Snack Time
Craft Time
DIY Aquarium Jars
Cake
Games/Activities


What is your favorite part of the ocean? Do you have a favorite sea creature? Share with me in the comments below!








This looks like a really fun birthday theme! What a great job you did. Looks like everyone was having a blast. The cake is super cute!
Thank you, Shelly! They had a lot of fun and it was actually a rather affordable party, in spite of how it may look!
AUsome (Auburn University, Alabama) theme. Had planned to use numerous ideas for my daughter’s :0th Birthday- Adult Mermaid theme, until I found out today that she’s got a commitment for her step-sister’s baby shower in MS on her birthday weekend. She mentioned this several months ago. I love your planning – great site!
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What a fantastic idea for a birthday party! I love all the creative ocean-themed decorations and activities you suggested. The under-the-sea games sound like a blast! I can’t wait to try some of these ideas for my child’s upcoming birthday. Thanks for the inspiration!
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